Finding Strength Within: How The Pillar Foundation Helped Deborah Reclaim Her Purpose and Transform Her Family's Journey

Before attending The Pillar Foundation’s Fall 2023 Retreat, Deborah was navigating the complexities of life as a Special Operations Forces (SOF) spouse during her partner’s transition from active duty. The shift brought unique challenges and uncertainties that often left her feeling overwhelmed and disconnected from her own sense of self.

The retreat became a turning point. It provided Deborah with a space to pause and prioritize her personal growth, allowing her to regain her footing while strengthening her family’s journey through transition. “Attending The Pillar Foundation’s Fall 2023 Retreat was transformative. I gained clarity on how to care for myself during this transition, while also deepening the partnership within my family as we embarked on this new chapter together.”

The Pillar Foundation’s tailored seminars and resources provided her with tools specifically designed for SOF spouses. These resources addressed the unique demands of supporting a partner while also empowering her to focus on her own identity and aspirations.

One of the most meaningful aspects of the retreat was the sense of community it fostered. By connecting with other SOF spouses on similar journeys, she experienced genuine understanding and camaraderie. Participants became both a contributor and a beneficiary of shared knowledge and emotional support. The shared experiences and challenges created a bond that led to lifelong friendships grounded in trust and mutual understanding.

In addition to building connections, she benefited from various healing modalities explored during the retreat. These practices offered her new strategies to support her overall well-being, helping her to find balance and resilience in her daily life. It wasn’t about a dramatic change in one weekend—it was about opening the door to renewal, connection, and empowerment.

Deborah's journey reflects the heart of The Pillar Foundation’s mission: to provide SOF spouses with the resources, encouragement, and community they need to navigate the challenges of transition and beyond.