Building Her Dreams: How The Pillar Foundation Helped Kristie Thrive in Business and Family Life
Kristi, a proud Texas mom and SOF spouse, found herself in a whirlwind as she tried to juggle raising young kids, building a successful real estate business, and supporting her newly retired husband’s entrepreneurial dreams. For years, she had wanted to feel like she was pulling her own financial weight in the family, but balancing it all left her feeling stretched thin. The pressure of being the rock at home, while also building her career and supporting her husband's transition, was overwhelming. Kristi loved her family and her work, but there were days when she didn’t know where to turn for the support she desperately needed.
That’s when she discovered The Pillar Foundation. At first, Kristi wasn’t sure if it was what she needed, but after hearing about their weekend retreats and resources for SOF spouses, she decided to give it a try. That decision changed everything. During the retreat, Kristi connected with SOF spouses from all branches, and for the first time in a long while, she felt that sense of community that had been missing since her husband’s transition. Being surrounded by women who truly understood the unique challenges of SOF life gave her the boost she needed, reminding her that she wasn’t alone in this journey.
Through The Pillar Foundation, Kristi found trusted resources that helped her better understand her own mind and body, from the stress of balancing it all to the emotional ups and downs that come with transition. But it wasn’t just about her personal well-being; The Pillar Foundation provided support for both her relationship and her business needs. The tools and guidance she received helped her navigate the complexities of being a wife, mom, and entrepreneur. Kristi felt empowered to grow her real estate business while also being the supportive partner her husband needed as he pursued his entrepreneurial dreams.
What Kristi loves most about The Pillar Foundation is knowing that she’s not just supported for the moment—it’s a commitment for four full years, two years before and two years after her husband’s transition. That reassurance gave her peace of mind, knowing she has a network of women and resources she can rely on, no matter where life takes her and her family. With The Pillar Foundation by her side, Kristi feels more confident and equipped to handle the twists and turns of this new chapter in their lives, knowing she has a community that has her back every step of the way.